What Happens Before You Are Born?

 What happens before you are born?
 Do you choose your life, your challenges, and the people you meet along the way? 

In this episode of The Daydreamer Podcast, I explore the idea of soul planning – what may happen before incarnation, how lives are chosen, and why certain experiences, relationships, and challenges appear again and again in our lives. 

I reflect on soul agreements, karma, free will versus destiny, and why Earth is such an intense place for growth and learning. We talk about difficult relationships, painful experiences, and whether suffering can have meaning on a soul level – without justifying harm on a human level. I also explore the idea that happiness itself may be the true life mission. 

This episode is an invitation to look at life from a wider spiritual perspective and decide what resonates with you. 

🎧 What Happens Before You Are Born 

Topics:
– Soul planning & incarnation
– Free will vs destiny
– Life lessons & karma
– Relationships on a soul level
– Happiness as a life purpose 

Kasia Golda-Phillips

Transcript

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Hi. Hi everyone. Welcome back to the Daydreamer podcast. This is as always your host Kasha speaking. So, how have you been? Have you been all right? Are you already feeling like we're leaving the wintering period or where you are in the world? It's still deep, deep winter and everything is still asleep. So I have um um I can see the difference between Poland and the UK. So I'm originally from Poland and um so in Poland you have winter like full on winter. Nature is fully asleep. Um there is nothing green around. It's just everything is dead or maybe not dead. It's hibernating before it comes back to life in the UK. So I went for a run finally. Finally I went and I was shocked how many flowers already popping up. Obviously snow drops but snow drops um as um name suggests they are start really early. In Polish they actually called shabishigi which is um can be translated like like strike through the um the snow. So yeah, they they are always the first ones, but I've seen more like um I I'm completely um bad at naming um at naming plants. So I have no clue what they are, but I saw I posted them on my Insta story if you managed to see that. Um red flowers, purple flowers, um some pink flowers. I was like astounded. made me immediately feel better like okay so the world is waking up it's time for me also to start waking up but yeah um I'm not sure that happened because I must say that today uh I feel horrible um you know recording podcast when I finally sit down and I start recording it actually makes me quite happy but I've been walking whole day, you know, shuffling through the house in my pajama um and like procrastinating to do anything cuz I just feel tired. I feel emotional. I feel like I'm on the edge of crying. Like everything makes me very emotional. Um it's not hormonal. That's that's what I immediately checked. Um where can I expect to become hormonal? And it's not yet. It's not yet. So that means it's not that. But it is something emotional. I also crave um I crave carbs which can be hormonal or emotional. So yeah, so something is going on. This probably this final posts of release uh that it's happening in the year of snake. So yeah. Um I I hope it goes away but you know I'm also allowing it to be I'm allowing myself to rest wherever I can. Um even though I picked up um exercising challenge part of it is I completely overex exercised myself on Saturday I did three trainings. I did 5k run in the morning and then I did two intensive trainings. One for stomach, one for upper body. Yeah. And I Sunday I was just that I could only I felt like could only sleep and I missed my training. So that's a lesson learned. Don't overtrain yourself because you may not be able to train the next day. Also, um we have a bit of um a saying in in Polish, shoe maker walks without shoes. And this is what what happened. So I because like I I've been telling you that I'm trying to lose some weight after the wedding and plus um Christmas that that's two and that's um Christmas gave me additional one. Could have been worse. Um but yeah, wedding it's still plus four after wedding. So you can make your own calculations. How how is the how is it going? It's still the same. Um yeah, so I struggle with emotional eating and obviously I I know that the method for that is hypnotherapy. It's not like I'm a hypnotherapist and I did a hypnotherapy. I found like recording, you know, on YouTube. It's it's obviously it's good that there are recordings like that. I cannot use my own voice. I find it a bit weird to use my own voice to record um you know for myself. So I found someone else. Obviously it's very generic but at the same time even generic one helps. Um so it actually it was about um sugar cravings and it helped me this magical moment under trans when I removed all the connections that uh I I created for sugar. I really I haven't had anything like a purely sweet like a a chocolate biscuit anything like that. for like a week now. It's not like um I haven't craved anything. Um I did a little bit especially around this like something's emotional going on but um but yeah but I haven't and it was manageable and typically it wasn't and I did it only once. So yeah. Yeah, something worked. But that's enough updates. um around life. I now want to go to the subject of this podcast. So what happens before we are born? What happens in this world in this plane where we are choosing our life? So that's there's like a huge planning exercise going on that involves so many aspects. It's actually from the human perspective it's difficult to understand how um someone can coordinate it. It's incredibly incredibly um complicated complicated like so many links that have to work together not only your life but life of everybody around you. So people we meet in our lives it's typically we're supposed to meet and we leave some kind of impact on each other no matter it can be bigger or smaller. So before you move into the life, you have to plan every step of it. You have to plan what is your lessons you want to learn. Try to finally learn so you can remove this karma. What and you know through these lessons what kind of relationships do you need? What kind of events do you need? Do you plan some wakeup calls if you're going the wrong way? So this is the thing. You have to also talk to other souls and you have to plan together. You have to agree between yourselves that they are okay to have this um relationship with you to help you grow and you help them grow. It's sometimes difficult to understand um from the human perspective that people that actually hurt us a lot can be our friends up there part of our family and they might be hurting us for for many karmic many like lives but it doesn't change the fact that their soul doesn't like it. their soul. It makes me now I I put in my head the the thought of like a sad soul that does not want to hurt you, but you agreed that this person will help you this way. And it's often one of the closest family soul family members that we have that they we ask them to do horrible things and it's Yes. So I know it can be controversial to think about that because sometimes what about some extreme crimes like murderers? Um, what about any type of abuse, right? Any sexual abuse, any physical abuse. I will not say that every soul that does this horrible things is from your family because there will be some extreme cases that this is um type of soul like serial murderers or like mass murderers. They have their own unique mission that is like destructive. Um, but it's it's still some kind of a part of this huge plan which is like I said it's it's one of these subjects that might be quite emotional because you know how can you say that mass murder of like I don't know Hitler has been there has been some plan on the on the soul level there has even if we don't understand that it's almost like also wars. Um so the wars how scary and terrifying and disgusting. They do have some kind of purpose to either wake us all up to the big change um or rebellion to finally you know uh make something stopping you know under the authority of people that shouldn't be uh or you know a certain source chose to leave this earth at this point um it is it there is like there it's it's quite quite the subject right do I believe that evil souls do I believe demons can incarnate I don't know if I believe that I'm not sure I believe in Um, in this typical uh good versus evil, I feel like everybody has some kind of purpose. How extreme that would be and there is this balance in the world that is created because of that. It's um I think it's a whole other subject. But yeah, but I had to touch upon it. Um it's this this like ultimate forgiveness if someone been hurting you that actually you don't have to agree to this behavior on earth. Not at all. But to understand that from the soul level there might be completely different relationship. Um, and that's how complicated and convoluted the life we plan might be. Also, let me just like say something here. You plan your life. You have masters. There are masters. I use masters um as a as a guides when I every time I do past life regression uh between lives when someone goes through death in one life and before we go into another one I like to meet a master one of the masters and they typically stand in front of this bowl with water all their lives are and I like to ask them through the client to show the next life that would be the most um useful from the learning perspective for the client, right? So yeah, and they are they often, you know, if you if you ask them, they help out. Not every client can see that, but um if they can, it's it's really helpful. And we typically go to really powerful past lives after that. And they can also give you some guidance which is um it's it's really amazing thing to do and these masters also help with planning this web this huge net of lives. Um so from now from this perspective what I wanted to say this these horrible experiences that you've been through. I know it's also quite emotional subject but we also chose them. We thought we are strong enough to carry it. we decided to go through that. Sometimes it's completely not understandable why why the soul would choose something horrible for themselves. But this is not anybody hijacking your plan. No, it's something that you agreed to go through. Maybe your soul is a very advanced soul that decided they can handle to be a victim in any way to to bring you know more emotion awareness to the people around to to to heighten the level of emotional frequency in your surrounding. It's with also you know conversation about living life. Um people don't understand don't want to understand don't want to accept that the soul leaves when it was planned to. I you know from the human perspective it's a very difficult thing and I wouldn't also want to accept if I I lost someone prematurely. Right? So that's that's difficult for everyone but this is a part of something that we need to remember and there is also this connection of you know destiny versus fate. So and the conversation about free will. So my view on that is that free will is when we choose our life the most. So when you're standing with master um and then you are surrounded by your soul family and we're all picking the life that you want to go into. That's where you have the most free will when you are in the life. And also that may be a lot for people that are not that into spirituality but you know earth is not the only destination. There are different planes and there is some the souls that choose earth is quite a specific experience that you want to go through. the the access to the knowledge of um previous life it's so limited we are going blind it is a very strong experience and yeah like I think kudos to all of us who chose it who decided to go through that um multiple times often there's a lot a lot to learn here at home so that's that's what we see of course as a soul we are you all knowing. So I mean obviously there are different levels depending how much of your journey as a soul you've done but um we may be a bit we know some things will be tough or horrible but we see it from perspective of oh yeah we'll be fine I but we not always even as a all knowing souls can predict how difficult it will be when you have no knowledge. So yes, some souls might be a bit over with with choosing the difficulties you know. Yeah. So that's that's that's not great. But um if your soul is overly ambitious for learning um but going back to the free will. So my view on that on earth is that there is this destiny fate there are points that were supposed to happen and will happen no matter what. No matter which road you choose, there will be a place then you will just like it will happen. It can almost like you're here and there are those different roots and lines and can be many of them and it's here and that's where you are supposed to be and this is your fate. But there's also destiny. So destiny will be this million lines, right? You can choose what you want to do. So there is you can shape your life and you can also choose this fate moments to do what you want with them. So you can do the destiny, you can build your destiny. Um there will be wake up calls planned. So if you are going off the track of your mission then you may um have some wakeup calls, illnesses, accidents, um some any anything that would just shake you up. This is the tarot tower moments, right? It can be a tarot even 10 of 10 of swords. Um because you you after these swords going to your back, you will stand up, right? You will stand up. So that's um that's where the free will is. It's quite interesting from the psychic perspective because it it makes this free will even more confusing how people say, you know, when I put tarot, I often I do go into this that you know there is some kind like whatever you decision make it will influence the root and maybe the outcome but on you do like a proper psychic reading you typically connect to what already happened and I don't know I feel I've I've seen I've seen that things are happening no matter even if I say say it to people things just happen. I've seen that um exactly how they already happened. It's like this person already chose this person already knew will come to me already get the information or this is what we're going into this time nonlinear time that it's so difficult to understand uh from the human perspective. There's a lot of limitation on our brain. Even though our brains are so amazing, there is a lot of limitation on our brain when we are here on earth. So yeah, so I want to also say about the letting yourself out of this calming cycle. So I read once something that was long time ago just popped into my head about um how actually this cycle of going back into lives is it's like a trap and you need to like remove yourself. It's like a prison. So I I can see something that you can be one of the souls that continously goes in and repeats the lessons of have new lessons just believes it has to continuing forever ago. I am one of the souls. I finished my cycle of like lives, my calming cycle and I chose to come on earth because I had some mission, right? Um to help to help humanity in some way, you know, it can be in many different ways. But yeah, so I think we have to be careful about it. The part of growing is also knowing that we can choose to leave the cycle. Because part of our free will outside of this world is that we can choose if we want to go back or are we done. Yeah. So, so that's important to know. Uh when it comes to the life mission that you may have, it's I've said that before in previous podcast. It's not only about this big missions of service for humanity raising frequency only if it makes you happy because the biggest biggest mission that we have on earth is to be happy. And this is something that we also should know and should remember. If helping big people makes you happy, amazing. If you are strong soul, just chooses to just live a quiet life with family, living in the countryside somewhere, just loving life, loving your family, loving, I don't know, animals, um, and nobody knows about you. And your happiness will raise the frequency. And this is what we need. So don't get holed up on you know being helping people is more important than loving your life and having small business that does something creative or or whatever right or even like if you're happy in a work corporate work and you comp comparate shelf that it makes you you know you come back home and you're happy that is also all right. We need to um move away from this obsessions of chasing something enormous. No, because a fulfilled life can actually be a very very simple life and this very simple fulfilled life that nobody knows about it will also raise the frequency. So that's my message from for today for this podcast. Don't chase something big. Just focus on your happiness. And if you are happy in this lifetime, if you created this happy place for your life, I think you achieved everything that was required of you. Even though you are this pure advanced soul, no need to sacrifice yourself. charity starts at home. And that's my message for today. I hope you enjoyed it. Um, of course, no matter if you are listening or you are watching on YouTube, like, comment, subscribe. It would really, really help me. So, thank you so much. Enjoy the rest of your week and talk to you soon. Bye bye.